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In this conversation, Edy and Cyndi discuss the nuanced connections between sex, desire, grief, and power dynamics. They explore the intersection of sex and grief, the impact of cultural narratives on sexual expression, and the role of power dynamics in desire discrepancy. Cyndi explains that sex and grief are two sides of the same coin; both are often difficult topics to discuss and elicit strong emotions. Opening up dialog around sex and grief can empower people to find their voice, express their desires, diminish societal pressures around sexuality, and prevent sexual grief.
Cyndi Darnell (she/her) is a clinical & somatic sexologist and author of Sex, When You Don’t Feel Like It:The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire. Cyndi supports individuals, couples and polycules navigating relationships and sexual difficulties. Originally from Australia, she’s now based in New York City.
